Thursday, June 14, 2018 – Negotiating for what you want in a successful collaboration isn’t as easy as it sounds. In fact, you could mess with someone’s emotional equilibrium if they can’t accommodate your wishes. However, there may be a few obvious points of discussion that make sense to cover first. Start slowly and build from there or you could jeopardize your recent progress. Novelist Tom Robbins wrote, “Our similarities bring us to a common ground; our differences allow us to be fascinated by each other.”
If you have a long-simmering beef with your lover, it is time for a confrontation. Prepare to be direct but fair. If your grudge is irrational, though, can you gracefully back down?