Monday, July 22, 2019 – Someone close to you really knows how to push your buttons. If it is your partner, you possess extra ammunition to volley the jabs right back. But your options may be more limited if it is a close friend behind the squabble. All of these rough patches are actually opportunities for therapeutic encounters. Everything you think another person is doing to you is also a dance you are participating in. If you want to boogey to a different beat, agree to change the music. You can’t play a symphony alone; it takes an orchestra to play it.